Christine Woolgar once asked if her husband wanted a divorce because they struggled with sex in their relationship, and she thought it was her fault.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
It was a woman’s job to sexually satisfy her husband, right? But the problem was that she didn’t enjoy sex, more than that, it actually hurt. She felt she had failed her job as a woman, so she offered her husband a way out.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Turns out he didn’t want a divorce, and the two fought for their marriage and their sex life. Eventually, leading them to see a sex therapist.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
In the process, Christine and her husband discovered all of the harmful things the church taught them about sex. This is her story of getting better.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
If you’ve ever heard from the Church that men need sex and that wives are there to fulfill that need, or if you’ve gotten mixed messages from the church about sex, I highly recommend you check it out!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

You can find Christine via her blogFacebook or Twitter. Her story can also be found on CBE International’s website What I Wish the Church Had Told My Husband and Me About Sex and Consent. Other posts she’s written on related topics include:

Check out this episode on Itunes, subscribe and leave a review!